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    November 13

    My first hen party

    We, as Chinese, do not have a tradition of hen night/ party.  However, I have a Swedish colleague working in HK who is getting married in April next year and I was invited to join the hen party for his wife-to-be. It was really fun for us but full of excitement for the bride-to-be as she did not know what will happen for the whole day!
     
    We "kidnapped" her on her way out to breakfast with a big surpised of gals from 10am.  We brought her back to her home "dressed-up" in a red Chinese dress.  Then we went to have our dim-sum breakfast - one of the best breakfast in HK!  This is a relatively quiet place and decorated like a palace (for couple having their wedding banquet in the evening).  They have the typical fake cake here so we had a picture with it. 
     
     
     
    One of the tasks for the bride-to-be is to take some photos with strangers.  One mission is to take photo with the man she doesn't want her husband looks like in 30 yrs.  Right after dim-sum, we saw a batch of very rough guys!  We both thought that ... they are very good to go! hahahaha very funny but mission completed! 
     
    FYI some guys in HK like to tide their t-shirt like this one in green... showing their belly. no worries they just want to get more wind and be cool.
     
     
    She need to find a old couple and it is so funny that after taking the photo, the old man insisted to give his signature to us. Maybe he thinks he is popular! Finally we found that he is an artist (painting) in China.
     
    One of the missions is to find a couple who is kissing.  When Ylva started inviting them by telling them she is having a hen party now... this gal said do you need to kiss him (her bf), if yes, go ahead! hahaha
     
    Next, we went to do OIL PAINTING!  This is my first time in life doing oil painting... i like it a lot. 
      
     
    This is my painting - very different from others but i love it!
     
    We had a very tight schedule, after painting, we went to learn bollywood dance!  there is no photo from me as i was very busy learning the steps.  Hopefully more photo to come with the training. But no worries, we demonstrated the dance we learnt in a beach afterward!
     
    We went to join the guys in the evening to finsih the day with a party in the beach.  So as to create a surprise, we covered her eyes.  Well it wasn't that easy to walk esp before reaching the sand. 
      
    The boys were so nice and already setup all the place to sit and the food for us!  
        
    As i mentioned earlier, we really danced in the beach! quite synchronized though!
     
     
    It was a very nice evening...    
     
     

    Sisters Day - it is good to be woman?!

    Sisters
    Life is too short to wake up with regrets.
    So love the people who treat you right.
    Love the ones who don't just because you can.
    Believe everything happens for a reason.
    If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands.
    If it changes your life, let it.
    Kiss slowly.
    Forgive quickly.
    God never said life would be easy.

    He just promised it would be worth it.




    Today is sister's day
     
    I LOVE YA SISTA'!!! :-)

    I am only as strong as the chocolate I eat,
    the hair spray I u
    se and
    the friends I have.

    To the cool women that have
    touched my life.. Here's to you!

    What would most of us do without our sisters, confidants and shopping, lunching, and traveling girls?
    Let's celebrate each other for each other's sake!

    TO MY GIRLFRIENDS!


      It is good be a woman
    .

    October 23

    dad + mum + me

    A quick shoot at the October Festival from the sponsor.  Really appreciate their tricks to make all of us laugh in front of the camera easily!

    October 18

    mum's dresses trial - Oct 09

    Today i forced my mum to try the dresses... she said it is too early... well yes but if you go earlier, you can secure sth you like.   She tried diff styles so as to see what is "better".  In the end, we all agree that the first purple chinese style suits her the most. 
     
     
    October 16

    「囍」Double happiness

    「囍」字有雙重喜樂的意思,在傳統中國人的婚嫁禮儀中,意義特別重大 - 寓意吉祥,為新人帶來美好祝願,象徵著幸福婚姻的開始。

    The Chinese word 「囍」means double-happiness and this is a word which is highly respected - implies fortune and prosper.「囍」acutally composed of two Chinese charaters「喜」(happiness) -  that's why it is referred as "double happiness".  Double happiness is exclusively used on marriage. 

    Gold is also widely used in a typical Chinese wedding.  Similarly, it represent fortune and prosper.  Double happiness and gold are a very common combination. 

     

    This is a necklace with a big 「囍」


     

    A pair of earrings with 「囍」

     

    A golden bracelet with 「囍」

     

    Other than double happiness, it is Pig + many little pigs and Dragon+Phenix are also very common in Chinese wedding. 

    This necklace is of cos implies fertility which was considered important in the good old days. Scarily big and looks ridiculous on the neck but some people really wear it (usually this is a gift from close relatives which you should wear it.  At least just on one day). I have a friend who wear similar thing, just with 12 baby pigs. 

    Dragon + Phenix represented the King and the Queen; they implies the couple will be together forever. 

     


    October 12

    Lai Chi Kok Park - Oct 09

    On the 1st Oct, instead of celebrating the China National day, we went to take some photos in a park which is full of Chinese atmosphere.
           
    October 09

    Rose-made jewelleries

    I have made two pearl jewelleries - one of on the top of Miffy's head (a necklace) and the other is on Miffy's left arm (a bracelet).  I like them a lot...  

     

    A closer look at the bracelet

     

    A closer look at the necklace

     

     

    October 05

    Save the day

     
    It sounds a bit too early to annouce anything further.  However, we know that there will be guests from very far away to join our wedding... we'd like you to save the Saturday of 6 Nov 2010 (yes, it is next year!).
     
    A proper invitation with more details will follow. 
     
     
    September 25

    Pearl necklace

    I like to do some handicraft and have made earrings for myself with crystal and some cute beans. 
     
    This time, I am going to try something new! I have bought some pearls and raw material to make a pearl necklace... I guess it should be easy... Keep watching and I will post my finsihed one soon!
     
    September 18

    Watch out for the STUPID!

    A good friend of mine sent me a news clipping today... I found it very interesting which I wanted to share with you. 
     
    According to a Swedish clinical research, "stupid people" is similar to cigarette, alcholo and fatty food - which is harmful to our health.  If you always need to work with those stupid, you may get heart attack.
     
    Scary, huh?!
     
    The research says STRESS is the main source of heart attack and dealing with stupid people is one of the most destructive sources of stress.   A large proportion of those who had heart attack confronted stupid people within the last 24 hrs.  One typical example is - a "colleague" has been keep asking him to borrow his correction-pen to clean the mistakes on the computer screen.
     
    Of cos if you have stupid colleauges, you have to work more (if not double)... and this will increase the stress level on top of dealing with them.  
     
    WATCH OUT and I wish all of you have good health and smile on your face Open-mouthed  or Smileevery day~   
     
     
    Red lips
     
     
    September 17

    A new page of life

    I guess I have passed one-third of my life... 
     
    Today I talked to two friends I knew since I was young (younger).  One has a baby gal last year and is now carrying her 2nd boy.   The other is my first boy friend where we are good friends since (hmmm let me think... ) since ... since... we were around 16 years old.   His lovely baby gal has just arrived. 
     
    After waves of weddings I have participated, I guess there will be more news about my friends having babies instead.  I am sooo happy to see them enjoying their lives, their work and having great family.  In my years so far, I am happy and having many good friends around.  They are very important to me. 
     
    I am entering a new page of my life too.  No worries, I am not having baby but I am just engaged.
     
    August 25

    "little" birthday gift in 2009

    This year, I got a little shinny birthday gift... a diamond  ring.  The ring is beautiful esp. this is exactly the style I like, the best color and etc... However, what i like the most is not the ring itself but the meaning out of it. 
    It is an engagement ring!
     
    It means I am now engaged~ As an independent woman living in the competitive socieity like HK, I already get used to earn enough for myself, buy whatever I wanted, travel to wherever I preferred.  Nowadays, most of the women in HK is smart and don't need the butter and bread from a man.  So I am not that "fond of" getting married. 
     
    I always have an impression that man (esp. those in HK) hates getting married. They are afraid of the committment and think that they are taking up a "burden" of a family.  I don't agree as I see most of the time, it is the woman who takes care of the husband and the family instead.  Anyway, it seems to me that man is not that enjoying to get married.  And I always think... I will only get married if my husband-to-be loves me a loooot + he thinks it is a great honor to be able to get married with me. 
     
    I can see how much Erik loves me, he keeps saying thank you to me for saying yes... he couldn't stop smiling...
     
    I trust I have found (met) the one.   
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
    June 10

    潘小濤﹕「六四」真相那麼難明嗎? - Yahoo! 新聞

    Is that difficult to understand June 4th incident?

    It is ridiculous that many "famous" peole try to blur the June 4th incident so as to protect their own interest (from Mainland).  In the end, facts are the facts.  No matter the students and public gathering in Tiananmen square were right or wrong, the military control, killing the armless with guns and tanks were the FACTS which can never be changed!

    Same as many people in HK, I have witnessed the killings on TV.  Admit it or not,  it is true and it is the facts I can never forget.   Truth will not get blurry by time... 

     

    潘小濤﹕「六四」真相那麼難明嗎?

    (明報)2009年6月10日 星期三 05:05
     

    【明報專訊】近日,部分曾積極支持八九民運的知名人士,包括前民建聯    立法會    議員程介南、勞聯前立法會議員李啟明、資深校長戴希立等,被問及是否支持平反六四    時,均拒絕表態支持,李啟明更說現時真相仍不清晰,難下定論。原以為這是簡單得像「阿媽是不是女人」的問題,為何20年後竟變成「真相未明、難下定論」呢?

    那麼,我先把事件真相寫出來。1989年6月3日晚10時許,20多萬全副武裝的解放軍    ,在坦克開路下,從四方八面殺向天安門    廣場。由於軍隊接到死命令,必須在6月4日清晨趕到廣場清場,因此軍人沿途開槍,其中,從城西的木樨地、五棵松推進的第三十八軍最兇殘,在復興門、長安街等大開殺戒,坦克也輾死輾傷不少學生及平民。

    在槍聲及坦克履帶下,一場中國近代史上最大規模、波及範圍最廣的波瀾壯闊民主運動,持續51天後,戛然而止。

    是非對錯 不是一目了然嗎?

    傷亡人數呢?民間估計,有800至3000人遇難,而天安門母親、在血案中痛失愛子的丁子霖教授,蒐集到186人死亡名單,當中的人民大學    學生程仁興,在天安門廣場    被士兵槍殺。中國官方曾公布,241人死亡(包括士兵),7000多人受傷;而資深新華社    記者張萬舒援引當時中國紅十字會    黨組書記譚雲鶴說,死亡727人,其中學生平民713人,官兵14人。

    還有什麼真相未明呢?說這些話的人,不是語焉不詳,就是說學生領袖也有錯,錯過了避免流血的時機,又或事涉中共內部鬥爭。我倒想問一下,當日軍攻破南京前,中國守軍最高長官唐生智率先棄城逃跑,群龍無首的中國軍隊,不是投降被殺,就是逃生時互相踐踏而死。毋庸置疑,唐生智是失職的懦夫,罪該萬死,但唐生智棄城丟兵,能減輕日軍在南京屠城的罪孽嗎?即使像日本    右翼所說,南京沒死一個中國人,但會改變日軍侵華的性質嗎?

    同理,無論北京    的學生及其領袖是否有錯,無論是否如官方所說只死了200多人,出動幾十萬野戰軍槍殺手無寸鐵的平民,是非對錯,不是一目了然嗎?所謂真相未明,或許只是他們的眼睛和良心,被利益蒙蔽而已。20周年,他們對慘案由原來的黑白分明,說成模糊不清;再過20年,會否倒退到顛倒黑白呢?

    Quote 潘小濤﹕「六四」真相那麼難明嗎?

     

    June 05

    「薪火相傳、接好民主棒」

    Hongkongers are seens as "materialistic" and very distant from any political issues.  We don't care about any politics and honestly we cannot change anything even we do care.  Then what can we do is to focus on our own wellingness... working hard and earn more to secure our life in our own way and of cos enjoy the life with what we earned.

    This is the 20th year of the June 4th incident. 

    Each year since 1990, the Alliance in Support of Democratic Movements in China have organised candlelight vigils there in memory of June 4th incident. Every year, tens of thousands of participants with candles fill several football pitches, to remember those who lost their lives and to demand vindication for those who sufferred persecution.  

    This is the 20th year of the June 4th incident and it is so touching to see so many hongkong people participated in the June 4th candlelight vigils last night.  The weahter in this week is not good but it was excellent yesterday even the weather forecast said it will have heavy rain!  I am so proud to see so many people joining the event and I am so proud that HK can still be the only place of China to organize this event. 

    I was there and it was just waves and waves of people... 

    On the way, there were also people organizing signing to speak out that our SAR head Donald Tsang is NOT representing us!  he is not elected by HK people so he canNOT say anything on behalf of us!

     

    We can hardly get inside.  The organizer said there were 150,000 people joined and this is the highest record of this candlelight vigil.  All the grassland, football and bastketball courts are filled with people. 

    Althought it was very crowded and hot, people also brought their kids because they believe that we have to let our next generations know the truth. We have to keep demanding the China gov't admit what they have done, release those still kept in jail/ home arrest and move towards the real democracy!!     

    May 27

    The Life List - 750 things to do in Hong Kong before you die.

    The Life List - 750 things to do in Hong Kong before you die

    Source: HK Magazine

    Date: Sept,2008

    Bucket lists aren’t just for terminally ill codgers in bad movies. For the 750th issue of HK Magazine, we’ve drawn up an extensive inventory for you to check your life against before the final curtain. Whether it’s eating dim sum at 7-11 or paragliding over Shek O, here are 750 things everyone in this busy city has to put aside their everyday business to make time for—just as we’ve put aside our usual features and listings this week.

    Culture Course

    The quintessential Hong Kong experience.

    1. Have your fortune read by the oldest looking fortune-teller at Wong Tai Sin Temple
    2. Watch all of Stephen Chow’s movies
    3. Try to figure out what “sweep the street” means in Mong Kok slang, and then go do it
    4. Learn a Cantonese opera song and join in the live music performance in Temple Street
    5. Keep your Chinese doctor’s hand-written perscription stuck to the fridge
    6. Watch “Mr. Hong Kong”
    7. Burn pictures of your ex on a sidewalk during Hungry Ghost Festival
    8. Pretend to be a triad
    9. Learn Chinese chess
    10. Watch old people gambling with traditional Chinese games at public parks. If you stay long enough they might teach you how to play.
    11. Borrow the whole Doraemon cartoon series from a public library
    12. Start a moody, “everyone hates me” Xanga blog
    13. Join the Facebook group “I heart HK” (or create one)
    14. Believe anything your feng shui master says.
    15. Be a member of an indie band and curse Cantopop
    16. ...But download a Cantopop ringtone anyway
    17. Explore Wan Chai market. Smell the love.
    18. Spend a night in Chungking Mansions with your backpack
    19. Tell everyone you are single during Lunar New Year to avoid giving out laisee
    20. Never sit on a warm MTR seat
    21. Live in a caged home for a night in Sham Shui Po
    22. Read “Old Master Q” cartoons and try to get all the jokes
    23. Play mahjong with strangers at a parlor and pretend you are an undercover policeman when you lose
    24. Play liar dice in a bar that sells bowls of peanuts for $60
    25. Have your photo taken at a party and find it weeks later in a magazine
    26. Open an art gallery with your retirement fund
    27. Use smiley faces even when you are e-mailing your boss
    28. Go speed dating. Make up a new job for every person that you meet.
    29. Throw a party outside the Cultural Centre
    30. Wash your utensils in hot tea before you eat at a teahouse
    31. Name your child after a fruit
    32. Bleach your hair blonde, especially if you’re a teenager
    33. Get photographed by a tabloid magazine and watch as they fabricate an entire story about you
    34. Seduce someone via SMS, then send them a Dear John text a day later
    35. Stay awake during an entire art film at Broadway Cinematheque
    36. Write a poem in an upstairs revolutionary café
    37. End every English sentence with “la” or “ar”
    38. Walk past the Museum of Art. Never actually go inside.
    39. Photograph every dish you eat at every restaurant you go to. Post a review on openrice.com, even if it’s a Big Mac.
    40. Jump in with the impromptu performance artists along Sai Yeung Choi Street South
    41. Make a wish at the Lam Tsuen Wishing Trees
    42. Intern at HK Magazine
    43. Attempt to sleep with starlets and upload your DIY sex tape on YouTube
    44. Watch a lion dance put on by firemen
    45. Eat worm jelly to experience Fujian culture at Mun Nam Restaurant
    46. Count the number of buddhas inside the 10,000 Buddha Temple
    47. Misspell “Wellcome”
    48. Finally finish your leftover mooncakes by Christmas.
    49. Do a watercolor of the smoggy harborfront and find that you have to buy extra tubes of gray paint
    50. Announce your phobia of chicken feather dusters
    51. Claim you were stopped by a modeling agent in Causeway Bay when shopping the other day
    52. Learn to grind your own soya bean milk  • Soak 300g of soya beans in water for six hours. • Drain the beans. • Pour the beans and three cups of water into a blender until finely blended. • Use a piece of cheesecloth to drain the liquid and throw away the residue. Boil the liquid over medium heat. • Then cook for 10 minutes over low heat. • Add sugar or salt to taste, and ta-da! Your very own batch of soya milk.

     

    53. Meet a blind date under the Tsim Sha Tsui Star Ferry clock tower
    54. Grudgingly share your table with a stranger in a cha chaan teng.
    55. Call your pet, child or boy/girlfriend “BB” loudly in public


     

     

     

     

     

    56. Drink twenty-four herbs tea while listening to 24 Herbs.

     

     

    57. Wear a Mickey Mouse t-shirt to Ocean Park
    58. Make a short film set in your cramped flat and submit it to www.ifva.com

     

    59. Sing karaoke around the clock at Red Box or Green Box
    60. Be a bartender at the Fringe Club
    61. Rent and re-watch all the old TVB dramas
    62. Spend a whole Sunday going on open tours of houses on sale at the Peak
    63. Get drunk at Artwalk, then expound obnoxiously on the artworks
    64. Go to an all-you-can-eat buffet at a dodgy karaoke bar and get food poisoning
    65. Pick a mobile phone number with as many 8s in it as possible
    66. Get the first-row seat at a pop concert
    67. ...And start crying when Andy Lau comes on.
    68. Teach English as a second language
    69. Drink pu’er tea in a Starbucks cup
    70. Savor a pineapple bun outside the Space Museum
    71. Go on a date with a local celebrity
    72. Become a local celebrity
    73. Sit your kid down at the piano until they pass the Grade Eight exam
    74. Talk to a local artist at Cattle Depot Artists Village
    75. Have a temporary obsession with anything from Japan or Korea
    76. Belly dance outside Times Square
    77. Gossip loudly about your friends in Tsui Wah, Café Landmark or Yung Kee     (location depending on your age and gender)
    78. Read the free newspaper of the person standing in front of you on the MTR
    79. Join a poon choi dinner in Tai Po uninvited
    80. Pronounce Louis Vuitton as “Louise Veeton” and Pucci as “Poo-See”
    81. Practice your English or Cantonese with the ABCs in Lan Kwai Fong
    82. Munch on a cheeseburger at the Chi Lin Nunnery
    83. Take everything the tabloids say as the truth
    84. Attempt to define “Hong Kong Culture” every time you’re drunk

    To be continued, full list here: http://hk-magazine.com/feature/life-list-750-things-do-hong-kong-you-die

     

    May 22

    Swine flu @ Japan

    This is a picture of the students all wearing masks.  

    When I first looked at this photo from newspaper, I found it funny but also sad.  The swine flu is attaching Japan, besides Tokyo, there are more cities found confirmed H1N1 cases.  My colleauge who is visiting Japan said that he was the only one who didn't wear a mask on the plane!!  It should be scary... and uneasy feelling. 

     

    This reminds me the very tough and difficult situation in year 2003 SARS in Hong Kong.  

     

     

    May 10

    nice weather and great hiking - Tai Tam resourvior

    Today, the weather is great, 27 degree with sun and breeze.  we took a bus up to the mountain and then walked down hill... passed 3 resouviors and they are quite dry as the summer and rainny season is just arrived. When the water filled the resourviors, the scenery will be even better. 

         

    April 30

    Erik is getting better and better on photography

    Many friends of mine know that I love taking pictures. I can take hundred of pictures in a trip (or even a day!)  Also, I love to be in the picture too... However, Erik is not a very good photographer, many times one single position/ background has to re-take several times. 

    We even had a "competiton" while we were just sitting on the side of the pier last year.  We competed on who can take a picture of this "little stand" better. Remeber the focus should be this stand... This one is from Erik... it is okay...

    Hey here come to mine... yeah~ i think mine is better as i was also the judge.

     

    After my intensive training, Erik improves a lot... here are some great pics he took in BJ~ 

     

    he tried to focus the flower and the great wall is burry...

    this one he focused the great wall and the flowers is burry

    They are really good and i used them as my desktop on my computer at work too~ 

     

    of cos, there are still some "not that good" ones, hehee  

    April 20

    My favorite Japanese Sake “上善如水”

    This is my favorite Japanese sake“上善如水” (no English name)... or i can say the only alcohol i like. 
     
     
     
    I am not a drinking person and cannot take much alcohol (most people know when they see my face turn scary-red after just a sip of beer!)  I don't like beer as they are mostly bitter - except Hogarden (which taste better).  Red wine is good when they are really good or else it is just x!#@$!#@%$ hard to describe.  However, i don't know why there are still a lot of people thinks i drink a lot. 
     
    Anyway, i really like this sake and today accidentally I found out the name of this sake is actually from a Chinese old wisdom - Tao Te Ching 道德经 from 老子 - a very famous teacher.  He said: <<上善若水 - 水善利万物而不争>> Water is like Infinity, it gives itself to all things without distinction or judgment and settles into the lowest places without deliberation.

     
      In dwelling, live in harmony with the land.
      In meditation, remember your oneness with the Infinite.
      In dealing with others, do not judge.
      In communicating, relate the truth.
      In governing, be fair.
      In daily life, be in harmony with all things and at peace with all people.
      In action, be mindful that there is a time and a season for all things.
      Avoid judging and its legacy contention and flow in the peace and harmony of the oneness of humanity.

    原著 - 《道德经》 第8章:上善若水水善利万物而不争,处众人之所恶,故几于道。居善地,心善渊,与善仁,言善信,政善治,事善能,动善时。夫唯不争,故无尤。

    经典解读 - 宋王安石《老子注》说:“水之性善利万物,万物因水而生。然水之性至柔至弱,故曰不争。众人好高而恶卑,而水处众人之所恶也。”

    It is interesting that the Japanese sake was originated by the yellow wine from China and now they have the famous brand of sake also named after a Chinese wisdom.  The meaning of Chinese wisdom saying is deep and it takes time to digest... 
     
    Chinese wisdom is always like a piece of "art", everyone interpret the same saying a bit differently. Even the same person might see the the same saying differently and have a different take-out after time is changed orwe experience something different in our life. 
     
    Let's don't make  “上善如水” complicated... The best thing to digest “上善如水” will be with sashimi~
     
    March 22

    Korea street food - Tteokbokki

    This Korea biz trip I tried something new!  I saw quite a lot of street vendors and they were popular... as a person who is curious of anything new and risky, i did try with my korean colleagues~ 

     

    At the vendor, besides this rice cake in red soup, they usually have some deep fried stuffs (like Japanese tempura), some sushi rolls, pig lungs and some rice noodle inside pig intestines... well...i tried all of them!

    Tteokbokki (Stir Fried Rice Cake) Tteokbokki
    Rice cakes are stir-fried with carrots, bamboo shoots, mushrooms, and cucumbers and stewed in scary red sauce/ soup. Anyway I know Korean loves Kimchi and everything looks similar to kimchi.   Although it may sound unappetizing, the taste is very good. It is very popular at street vendors.

     Gimbap (Rice Wrapped in Seaweed) Gimbap
    Gimbap (usually spelled Kimbap) is Korea's most popular and nutritious convenience meal. You can find it sold everywhere: picnics, schoolchildren's lunch boxes, street venders, and convenience stores. 

      

    Sundae (Korean Sausage) Sundae
    The small and large intestines of pigs are salted and stuffed with a mixture of

    pig's blood, rice, green onions, garlic, minced pork, and vermicelli before

    being steamed. SOUND SCARY huh?!  The sausage is sliced when served

    and some steamed lung and liver slices usually accompany it.

    The pojangmacha (street vendor) is one of the best places to grab a quick snack or pass the night away drinking with friends. The types of food they serve can usually be eaten quickly while standing up (although someplaces have cheap chairs or benches) or take with you.